The Camel’s Back

What pushed me over the edge and into getting SisterLocks in the first place.

As I stated, I had been researching SisterLocks for 2+ years before I took the plunge. I had seen the infamous Essence article on SisterLocks and called them immediately but unfortunately there was no one in Atlanta who knew the process. So I waited.

I had already grown out of any chemicals that were in my hair years back and had a good 6+ inches of ‘Virgin’ hair. I was having fun braiding, twisting, weaving, pressing, my hair every two weeks. Well, while going thru the ‘new hairstyle every two weeks’ routine I started noticing my hair thinning so I was somewhat back on the hunt for something healthier to do with my hair (yet still going thru the unhealthy processes).

So, I decide to change it up and go to one of the more popular natural hair care salons in Atlanta at the time. I called them and came in for a ‘consultation’ which ended up basically being a perusal through black hair magazines (most of which I already owned, so what was the point) to choose a style (wth?!?) I was disappointed to say the least, and to top it all off, they wanted to charge an arm and a leg AND a kidney for a style that would last less than 10 days. Needless to say I did not give them my business. So, the search continued. Well, I was referred to someone else, by someone else, who supposedly did hair as well, so I made an appointment with her. Here’s where the story gets thick. <--more-->

I walk into the home that is so filled with cultural artifacts that you can’t walk safely through the place to a back room for the consultation. She proceedes to pull out one of those tri-fold bolster back chairs that fold out into a twin ‘bed’ from WMT. However, the cover was ripped and falling off so she had to manually push it together to keep it from completely separating. Further more, the thing was covered with hair. I’m sure it was probably premium grade Kanekalon but it was stil unsetteling. She covered it up with another blanket and asked me to sit down.

The book of previously completed styles was pulled out and I was told to make a choice. I did. She looked at my head and said ‘ok, lets shampoo’. And now we arrive to the Camels nose.

She took me over to her kitchen sink.

It was filled with dirty dishes.

She moves them from one side of the double sink to the other, gives the sink a quick rinse, and proceeds to stick my head in the sink and shampoo away. I’m starting to think ‘humm, this isn’t quite feeling right’.

And now we make it down the camels neck, round the first hump and rest securely in the valley as we watch the hay fill the baskets on either side of where we now reside.

She rinses my hair and proceeds to say, “all the towels are in the wash so I’ll have to use these” as she pulls paper towels off the roll and wraps my head with the Bounty.

the final straw falls and ‘thump’ goes the camel on the ground.

This was my ‘light bulb’ moment.

I knew that God Almighty was trying to tell me something. The experience was almost surreal as I felt the ‘papermache’ wrapped around my temples move as I raised my eyebrows to get a look at my acoster. At this exact moment I was ready to leave the flighty world of traditional african-american hair care behind and embark on something of more permanance and cultural weight.

My next post, the light at the end of the marcel barrel.

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Things I like about the Web

True,

There is too much Spam, FAR too much Porn, and an exaperatingly unquantifyable amount of time wasting junk on the web.

However, even with that said, every now and again an email or comment or post comes a long and brightens your day like the one I got from a former co-worker a couple of weeks ago. He’s now writing and following his dream, and I’m proud of him for stepping out and valuing what’s important to his being who he really is at the core.

Here’s to you Richard (and Buster :-) ), thanks for looking me up.

And,

Here’s to the web, for keeping us all connected in the most unusual of ways.

SisterLocks

Yes, I have SisterLocks.

I started them in 2000.

Yes, it’s all my hair.

Now for the long version :-)

I got my SisterLocks in August 2000. Tressie Samuels in Georgia started my locks for me and continued to maintain them for the first year and a half or so.

 

I had already grown out of my perm for some time and had about 6 inches of virgin hair on my head. From the moment I left my technicians salon I loved it, loved it, LOVED IT!

 

I will note that I was also ready for the change after the one bad hair experience that ‘broke the camels back‘ more on that later.

 

I had been researching sisterlocks for about 2 years before I actually got them (there was no one in Atlanta to do them when I first found out about them). I had gone thru braids, weaves, two strand twists, coils etc.etc.etc. and it was all good except for the fact that every time I would take them down my hair would shed like crazy and I found my thick natural getting thinner and thinner! <--more-->

 

Anyway, back to sisterlocks. They’re great. You don’t have to grow out of your perm to get them; you just need 3 inches of hair and at least a month or two of new growth.

 

Make sure, MAKE SURE you go to someone certified. Your hair CAN get jacked by an amateur (I personally know some horror stories from sisters who decided to go a ‘cheaper’ route only to pay twice as much in the long run for someone to try and ‘fix’ their hair). Get the whole story »

Vinx

I did say I was going to post the ‘Vinx’ story next didn’t I.

So, this is how I met Vinx…

Vinx’s Comment:

I love this pic, its HILARIOUS!“Hi my name is Vinx. I’d like to invite you to my south Georgia plantation home/studio for our labor day weekend song-writers retreat. so far we have 12 confirmed and have room for a couple more. I know we have not met before but i am aware of your drum & bass influenced music. please call my director D Black if you are interested and have any questions…. his number is ***.***.***0…………. hope you can attend…Vinx”

This is the message I received in my MySpace inbox on Aug 5, 2006 11:31 AM (man am I glad I haven’t deleted that yet, here’s a secret about me, I’m an information pack rat)

When I first read it, I was like “What kind of bootleg offer is someone trying to sell me now” but somewhere on the inside I knew it was legit. So I went on the hunt for information about the then mysterious Mr. Vinx and boy was I surprised.

To date, this is probably the most amazing experience I’ve had on MySpace. The man responsible for Sting’s signature percussive sound (the Soul Cages Era) actually FOUND me on MySpace. How cool is THAT!

So yes, I went to the retreat and the rest is history in the making. Just check us out :-)

I’m refusing to choose (or at least trying not to)

RefusrSo I’ve found out I’m a scanner. I prefer to call myself a renniasance woman (that whole allusion to the 80s movie gives me the willies). Even so, I’m starting to embrace her discovery, or un-covery of my type of lifstyle behaviour.

To be honest, when I first heard Barbara Sher talking about ‘scanners’ it was so mind bending to me it was on the verge of hearasy. While that remained my sentiment somewhere in the back of my mind, I still went out and bought the book. I started to read it around the begining of 2006 but couldn’t get past the ‘heretical’ introduction so I put it down.

Well now it’s 2007. I’m a year older, 2x a mother, and ready to listen, so I started reading the book again and you’ll be proud to know I’m all the way into the first chapter.

I’ve stopped at the point where she said ‘stop and do such and such right now’ and am in the process of doing just that.